Remember that the owner of the house is responsible for what goes on within it; he is the intellect of the house, the leader, he leads the house without there being anger within neither any disruption. There is no shouting or yelling in the house, it is ran in the best of manners, with precision for what is best for his spouse and children as they are under his responsibility. These are etiquettes that can be found under the shadow of the Shariah.
The ones using the phone must ponder on the following;
That the hand of the woman should not lift the receiver if there is a man present, as the people of the house have a Hijaab and because of this they are protected from curiosity of the identity of the one who is calling their phone.
This should be taught and instructed to the people of the house, even the children so that they may grow up with fruitful manners.
As for the deprived one, then his house is like a place of broadcast. Anyone is allowed to answer the phone when it rings the boys, the girls, the elderly, and the young and if someone rings his home, you may find at times that they all rush to answer at the same time. If a woman is on the phone then he talks to her like she is his mother, talking to her and gossiping for hours. So Oh Allaah! How many homes have this and have been corrupted with evil? So I ask for Your Kindness, Concealing, Oh Generous! Oh Merciful! So the one who takes heed, should take heed of this! And the one who has understanding, take understanding from this!
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